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Dr. Vanessa loves figuring out why family members struggle to get along. Some might think the skill came easy because she’s a physician. But it started as a survival tactic, growing up the youngest in a blended family full of hostility.
And she became a pediatrician so her patients knew somebody cared even when they felt no one did at home. That’s why she’s passionate about empowering self-expression for healing, transformation, and relationship restoration.
Women come away with renewed faith and strategies to overcome adversity and leave a lasting legacy.
Dr. Vanessa
Family Dynamics Consultant
Are you a woman who feels like your family doesn’t see or hear you? Does your family feel like strangers living under the same roof? Do you worry about passing on the same unhealthy behaviors passed on to you?
I help you to evaluate and repair the attitudes and actions causing relationship breakdowns in your family.
What are family dynamics?
Dynamics refers to the forces at play in the process of change or growth. A family is an organism that changes and grows over time. How well it does depends on the forces at play in that family.
And when you’re too close to the action, it’s hard to see the patterns hindering your family’s healthy growth. An outside perspective is just the thing to identify the attitudes, actions and communication gaps keeping your family from the healthy connection that provides stability for all of you.
“Like many times before [Vanessa’s] words just saved me as I begin to enter a new phase of parenting.”
Lori S.
Dr. Vanessa, I just want to say that your [YouTube] channel has been a blessing. I’m not a mom yet, but your content on re-parenting yourself in reflection of your own complicated relationship with your mother has been such a thought-provoking conversation…I hope to mother with the same passion, respect, consciousness, and self awareness when I have my own children one day.
Natasha A.
I CHALLENGE YOU
- to feel confident you’re raising your child well
- to get real support without judgement
- to break poor parenting habits passed down
- to create a self-aware, emotionally safe home environment
ARE YOU UP FOR IT?
Being a mom is hard!
Get weekly support for leading the family you love…
The change you want to see in your family starts with you
Life will treat you like a caterpillar if you let it…
- wandering in survival mode
- obsessed with hiding your insecurities
- feeling worthless
- wavering between defending yourself and proving yourself
- alone in loud silence
Want to know what happens inside a chrysalis? I wrote about what happened in mine. A transformation that sent me soaring to the truest version of myself.
“Whether a woman’s relationship with her father or father figure was loving or lacking, this book offers more—in the hope and healing found in the truth ‘about God’s heart towards you.'”
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